First-Time Buyer Guide

Buying your first home in Detroit is less scary than it sounds.

I’m James Cox, and this is the guide I wish every first-time buyer had before they started looking. What assistance Michigan actually offers, what lenders really check, how FHA, VA and Conventional loans differ, and every step from our first conversation to the day you get the keys. No jargon. No pressure.

A couple reviewing their mortgage paperwork at the kitchen table before buying their first home in Metro Detroit

The whole point

You deserve to understand every number before you sign it.

The money part

Michigan has help for your down payment.

This is the thing most first-time buyers don’t know, and it’s the one I bring up in nearly every first conversation: in Michigan, there are programs designed specifically to help people buy their first home — and a lot of people who assume they can’t afford a down payment have never been told about them.

State housing agency programs

The Michigan State Housing Development Authority (MSHDA) runs first-time buyer programs that combine a below-market mortgage rate with down payment assistance, usually structured as a second loan that helps cover your down payment and closing costs. There are also programs aimed specifically at buying in targeted areas of the state, which can be even more generous. Eligibility rules are specific — income limits, purchase price limits, credit and homebuyer education requirements all apply — so the only way to know is to have someone check for you. That’s me.

County and city programs, plus the big one

Wayne, Oakland and Macomb counties, the City of Detroit, and a number of individual communities run their own first-time buyer assistance programs, often alongside nonprofit housing agencies. Some help with the down payment, some with closing costs, some with both. And one worth knowing about by name: the Detroit Down Payment Assistance Program, funded by the Gilbert Family Foundation, has helped a large number of Detroit homebuyers with their down payment. It has been popular enough that it has opened and closed in rounds, so timing matters — another reason it’s worth asking early rather than at the last minute.

What assistance actually looks like

Assistance is usually not a grant you get handed — it is normally a second mortgage, often with no monthly payment, that is forgiven over time if you stay in the home, or repaid when you sell or refinance. Sometimes it is structured as a forgivable loan, sometimes it is silent until payoff. The terms matter more than the headline number, and I go through them with you line by line so you know exactly what you are agreeing to.

Stacking it with the right loan

Assistance works alongside your first mortgage rather than replacing it. Most often it pairs with FHA or a Conventional first-time buyer loan, and in certain cases with other programs. Matching the assistance to the right first mortgage — instead of taking whichever one is mentioned first — is where a big part of the saving shows up.

Program rules, funding and availability change, and each one sets its own income and eligibility limits. Nothing here is a promise that you qualify — it’s a starting point, and the fastest way to a real answer is a short conversation.

What it takes

What lenders actually look at.

Not a checklist you have to pass before you’re allowed to call me — the opposite. These are the four numbers we go through together, so you know where you stand instead of guessing.

01

Credit

Every program has its own minimum. FHA is generally more forgiving than Conventional; VA is often the most flexible of all for eligible buyers. A lower score doesn’t automatically end the conversation — sometimes a few months of specific, targeted work changes what you qualify for, and it’s worth knowing which moves actually matter for your file.

02

Income and employment

Lenders want to see steady, documented income and a work history they can verify. Salaried, hourly, self-employed and commission income are all workable — they are just documented differently. If you are self-employed, expect to provide more paperwork, and start earlier than you think you need to.

03

Debt-to-income (DTI)

This is the one that surprises people. Lenders compare your total monthly debt payments — car, student loans, credit cards, and the new mortgage — to your gross monthly income. Even with a great credit score, too much existing debt can limit what you can borrow. Paying down a card before you apply is sometimes worth more than waiting for a better rate.

04

Savings for costs

Two separate things: the down payment, and closing costs. First-time buyer programs exist for both, and assistance can cover part of each — but lenders still want to see that the funds in your file are real, documented and yours. Gift funds from a family member are allowed on most programs; they just need a paper trail.

Not sure whether you’d qualify? Most first-time buyers aren’t — until we look at your actual numbers together.

Find out where you stand

FHA · VA · Conventional

Three loans, three different people.

None of these is the “best” loan. Each fits a different borrower, and the right answer depends on your credit, your savings, whether you served, and how long you plan to stay. Here is the honest comparison I give every buyer.

The first-timer favourite

FHA

Backed by the Federal Housing Administration. It accepts lower credit scores and smaller down payments than most conventional loans, and gift funds from family are allowed toward your down payment.

  • Low down payment requirement
  • More forgiving credit guidelines
  • Seller-paid closing costs are often negotiable
For those who served

VA

For veterans, active-duty service members, and many surviving spouses. VA loans can require no down payment at all and carry no monthly mortgage insurance, which keeps the payment lower.

  • No down payment for eligible borrowers
  • No monthly mortgage insurance
  • Competitive fixed rates
Strong credit, lower long-run cost

Conventional

Not government-backed. With good credit, conventional financing can offer the best rate and the option to remove mortgage insurance once you have built enough equity — which lowers your payment later.

  • Down payments as low as 3% for eligible buyers
  • Mortgage insurance can be cancelled later
  • Flexible terms, including 15 and 30 years

The short version: if credit or savings are tight, FHA is usually the door that opens first. If you served, VA is almost always the strongest option and the one I would push you toward. If your credit is solid and you plan to stay a while, Conventional often costs less over the life of the loan because the mortgage insurance can come off. The comparison only becomes real when it is run against your numbers — that is the conversation.

The walkthrough

Eight steps, first call to closing day.

This is the actual sequence, in the order it happens. Some steps take days, some take weeks — but there are no surprises in here, and you will always know what is coming next.

01

First conversation

We talk about your income, your savings, your credit, and what you actually want in a home. No paperwork yet, no commitment — just an honest look at where you stand. You will leave this call knowing roughly what you can afford.

02

Pick your loan program

I compare FHA, Conventional, VA and assistance options for your specific situation, then explain each one in plain English: the rate, the monthly payment, the down payment, and what it really costs you over time.

03

Get pre-approved

This is the step that changes how sellers see you. A pre-approval letter is a real lender’s commitment to review your file, not a guess. I collect your documents and give you a letter you can put behind an offer.

04

House hunt with a number in hand

Now you shop with a real ceiling, not a wish. You will know what monthly payment corresponds to what price, so the homes you tour are homes you can genuinely buy.

05

Make the offer and go under contract

Your agent negotiates the price; I make sure the financing side is ready to move. Once terms are agreed, your file goes into full underwriting — this is where the real review happens, and where a well-prepared file wins.

06

Appraisal, inspection and conditions

The lender orders an appraisal to confirm the home’s value. You get an inspection so you know what you are buying. I stay on top of every condition so nothing sits waiting on a desk.

07

Final approval and the clear to close

Underwriting signs off, the numbers are finalised, and your closing disclosure shows exactly what you are paying. I walk you through every line before you sign anything.

08

Closing day — keys in hand

You sign, you fund, and the home is yours. Eight steps, one point of contact, nobody handing you off along the way.

Next step

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Reading a guide is a good start. A twenty-minute conversation is what actually moves things — because then we are looking at your real numbers, your real options, and the assistance you may be able to use.

Send me a note and I’ll reach out personally. If you would rather just talk now, my direct line is below — first-time buyers call me all the time with questions they think are silly. They never are.

Call or text me directly(313) 422-1327
James Cox, My Loan Strategist, working with first-time buyers across Metro Detroit
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